Recoil of +P and even +P+ is not that much more than standard pressure to me, but recoil is one of the most subjective things in shooting. When I used a .40 a lot more than I do now, I found the recoil of the hottest 9mm to be roughly equal to the lightest of the .40 S&W duty loads, the subsonic 165 grain, in the same full-size Glock platform.
Looking at institutional experience, some departments have been happy with standard pressure 147 grain subsonic (i.e, Portland Police Bureau, LAPD, LASD) and some have not. LVMPD, CHicago PD,Jacksonville (FL), and NYPD (early Transit and Housing Authority elements) were not happy with 147 subsonic, went to 1124 +P Gold Dot, and reported much better results from their 9mms.
If you go standard pressure, definitely go with the more modern designs (HST, PDX-1 or Ranger, etc.) Personally, from slaughterhouse to street results, I'm still more comfortable with 124 +P and 127 +P+.
Best,
Mas