I also went with the RMR. Based on the info out there, it's the best hard-use pistol red dot, although the Holosun 507 seems to be a close second. I had my G19 slide milled so it's sits lower than it would on a MOS version.
The DPP is a nice optic, too. Large window, top load battery; I liked the amber triangle reticle. However, it's a pretty thick optic (too thick, IMO) and you would need super tall suppressor height sights for any chance of co-witness. (Leupold does make a rear iron that mounts to the optic, but you'd still need to source a front sight).
I don't have any experience with the Holosun, but the large, circle-dot reticle is appealing. They also make a version (ACSS Vulcan reticle) that has a huge circle that helps guide/steer you into the center dot when presenting, making it faster to acquire the target and save precious fractions of a second. I don't know if they're actually available yet, though. That would be the one I would get if I got a Holosun.