I find myself carrying them more and more lately. ... I have 2 LCP's, a regular and a Max, and now have a P365 .380 "which I can't get enough of its so much fun to shoot".
Do you think I'm relying on the .380 to much and what ammo would you recommend ? Right now Im carrying 95 grn Hydra's cause I have to many laying around.
Your call. Only you can determine whether you can manipulate and shoot all 3 of your choices with ease, controllability and accuracy under stressful conditions.
As far as the caliber? Well, since the introduction of the really diminutive .380s, it's become a common option for both Secondary and off-duty roles. If a .380 suddenly utilized as a Secondary weapon (meaning while on-duty, in dire situations) is considered sufficient enough to be an approved option for many working cops, why wouldn't it be practical for the private person?
The really small size of the original LCP and the Bodyguard (now part of the M&P line) does make them difficult for some folks to handle, manipulate and fire when under stress and duress, meaning even minimal range stress, so that's something for the individual to assess for themselves.
I hadn't wanted to own a .380 for close to 25 years (bad experience with a Beretta M84 in the 80's). However, once I borrowed and tried a LCP from another instructor, I realized a couple of things. First, it was easier to shoot than I'd expected for its small size, and second, it could slip into shorter and tighter jeans pockets which couldn't hold my J's. I ordered a second one, with the revised trigger/hammer geometry, fixed sights and stainless slide.
I tried a variety of loads, including W-W STHP, Federal JHP, Rem GS, Speer GDHP and some Ball loads. The Rem GS and Speer GDHP were the easiest for me to find, and they all fed & fired when I used the little LCP's for range sessions, drills and quals.
Every time I take one or the other of my LCP's to a range session, I'm once again surprised by how well the little .380's shoot. I find them virtually as easy to accurately run at reasonably close distances (1-15yds) as my J-frames.
Matter of fact, we're getting ready to make a road trip to the PNW, now that my wife's lumbar fracture has healed and she can tolerate being seated in a veh for longer periods, and I'm debating on just taking one of my LCP's, instead of a LCP and one of my snubs or a small 9/.40.