Backstory- My neighbor died of a heart attack recently. General consensus was that his daughter had a lot to do with his health problems. She is late twenties, moved back in with her parents because she couldn't control her spending urges. Bankrupted herself, moved in with them, decided to adopt a couple of kids. Dad took out a couple of loans to remodel and add on to the house. Stress from the loans and kids got to him, he lost his job and also went bankrupt. He was mid 50's when he died. Not my place to judge their family, but it made wonder how much responsibility you owe you children. I am sure most parents would give their life to protect their child, but where do you draw the line?