She's been interested for years, but I made a mistake. I've been shooting with her using my G23s. She likes it, but doesn't handle it well. My mistake - I continued to tell her she would get used to it if she just kept shooting. But it finally dawned on me - it just doesn't fit her hand. Of course, she has been saying that for years, but it finally dawned on me. The double stack, boxy grip is too big around. So, if a G23 is too big for her hand, but she wants a .40 S&W semi that won't kick her too hard, what are the options? What do some of you gals out there use that don't do Glocks? Thanks in advance!