well i need some more prayers

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by *ASH*, Mar 15, 2010.

  1. *ASH*

    *ASH* FURBANITE

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    last wednesday me and wife rode up to PA from here in NC to visit her mom and just get a break . her mom had open heart surgery back at xmas . anyway one of our daughters on spring break stayed here to look after the dogs and cats and my mom who lives close by. i waited til my mom got back from her doc appointment wednesday to leave she said things were ok , she has weak heart and wears a defiblilator and 83 .

    well saturday night my daughter calls me and says grandma is in hospital at duke and been there since thursday !!!!! , it seems her preacher took her up and she was hiding it from everyone. the whole time when i called her cell to check on her she said oh everything is fine !!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr . she even called her granddaughter to see if she needed anything , KNOWING MY DAUGHTER would say no grandma !!! gaddamn sneaky mom !!!!!!!!!!!! so anyway we cut trip short came back late last night ran over to duke , she had heart cath today doc said her defib went off 3 times and if she did not have it she would be dead.

    no blockages but she is in til thursday . please say some prayers im not ready to lose my mom but i know its coming .

    she said did not want to ruin our trip !!!!!!!!!!! i love my mom but hardheaded as a damn mule. i told her my next trip im hiring someone to stay with her.

    now my daughter said grandma lied lol , i said no you have to ask point blank or she skirts the question or answers it carefully . grrrrrrrrrr
     
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  2. JuneyBooney

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    I hope everyone makes it through this rough time. Older folks are like dogs...they never tell you when they feel bad. Prayers to you folks.
     
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    Zell IrregularMember

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    You got it. All the best to your mom. P
     
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    I ain't much on prayin, but I do make exceptions.

    Prayers sent.
     
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    I hope your Mother makes it OK. Prayers for your Mom sent your way!

    Just lost my Dad a couple week ago it sucks!
     
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    I will pray for you Mom. Piece of advice, spend as much time as you can beside her cause we don't know when will be the day and the worse thing is to regret after the fact not being there. settle any grudge or thing never had the corage to tell her and make peace with her, and don't be embarrase to tell her how much you love her. I lost my father three years ago and to this moment I regret not taking his grandson to go see him when he requested it; Even though I was the last one to see him alive.:crying:
     
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    Prayer sent for you and your mom
     
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    keep the faith.
     
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    Prayers sent to you and yours.
    My Grandmother was the same way. Back in the late 80s she was living with me. One day I came home from work and she was no where to be found. Talked to all the neighbors and they all said that they haven't seen her, come to find out one of them took her to the Airport and she flew back to Omaha. Couldn't stay mad at her, she was very homesick. But the Neighbor.... I could have chocked him.
     
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    Lord, wrap your healing arms around his Mom. GIve him strength during these trying times. Bless them all!
     
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    thanks to all , it really does mean alot . i lost my dad in 95 , and we moved back here close to mom for me to look after her , folks call me a mommas boy and i am and proud of it . i just wish she was not so hardheaded , we never know when our time is up but i do hope i have more time with her. im all shes got , her mom ,dad , brother are all gone and i do have a deadbeat sister who only comes around when wanting some money , but i took care of that as now im power of attorney and exucutor of her trust , but any way thank you all and best wishes to all of you and your families also .


    ash
     
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    Understanding and prayers sent ash. I'm going thru something similar with
    my mother too.
     
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    Prayers sent ASH. Please keep us updated.

    bocephus549, I'm sorry for your loss.
     
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    Done and done. All the best ASH.