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Tact and Diplomacy

Discussion in 'The Lighter Side' started by okie, Feb 16, 2009.

  1. okie

    okie GT Mayor

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    Oct 28, 2001
    Muskogee Ok.
    It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older,

    it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as

    when they were younger. When you notice this, try not to shout at them.

    Some are over-sensitive and there's nothing worse than an over-sensitive


    My name is Ron. Let me relate how I handled the situation with

    my wife, Julie. When I took early retirement last year, it became

    necessary for Julie to get a full-time job for the extra income that we


    Shortly after she started working, I noticed she was beginning

    to show her age. I now usually get home from the pub about the same time

    she gets home from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she nearly

    always says she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts

    dinner. I don't shout at her, instead I tell her to take her time and just

    wake me when she gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch at the

    pub so eating out again is out of the question; I'm ready for some home

    cooked food when I get home.

    She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But

    now it's usual for them to sit on the table for several hours after

    dinner. I do what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each

    evening that they won't clean themselves. I know she really appreciates

    this, as it does seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to


    Another symptom of ageing is complaining. For example, she will

    say that it is difficult for her to do the shopping during her lunch hour.

    But we take them for better or worse, so I just smile and offer

    encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days.

    That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing

    lunch completely now and then won't hurt her. I like to think tact is one

    of my strong points.

    When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest

    periods. She has to take a rest when she has only half finished mowing the

    lawn and several extra breaks when she's vacuuming through the house. It

    does annoy me, vacuuming when I'm trying to watch my favorite program, but

    I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to make herself a

    nice cup of tea and just sit for a while, and as long as she is making one

    for herself, she may as well make one for me too.

    I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support

    Julie. I'm not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many

    men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows

    better than I do how frustrating women get as they get older. However,

    even if you just use a little more tact and less criticism of your ageing

    wife because of this article, I will consider that writing it was well

    worthwhile. After all, we are put on this earth to help each other, eh?


    Ron died suddenly last week. He was found with a 24-inch

    Stanley screwdriver rammed up his *** with only 2 inches showing.

    His wife Julie was arrested, but the all-woman jury accepted

    her defence that he accidentally sat on it.
  2. kirgi08

    kirgi08 Watcher. Silver Member

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    Jun 4, 2007
    Acme proving grounds.

  3. Aquanewt


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    Nov 13, 2001
    Baltimore, MD, USA
    I'll bet that left a mark!