Beat me to it If there was ever a poll here that needs to be able to pick more than one choice it is this one. I would add a couple more financial choices such as $10K to $50K, $50-100K and >$100K. And I would add one for working in one, one for owning or being a partner in one, and of course, "Have you ever gone to one often enough to have your own reserved table." I also would parse the dating one out to dated one, dated more than one, married one for 1-4 weeks, married one for 5 weeks to 3 months, and married one that actually lasted more than 3 - 6 months. My sense is some of us may well have seen photos of her and may well recognize her and that is part of the reason she does not post any photos here. Which seems prudent, not only on a personal level but also from a career standpoint.