Im fairly new with firearms and self defence. Is gold dot 124 grain in standard pressure a good self defence choice. I have some 124 plus p, but im interested in none plus p. I also like gold dot 147 grain, which not many like.
Try all three of the loads you mentioned, with a view toward assessing your accuracy, control, and speed of fire. Other folks' assessments or relative controllability are high subjective. Only you can objectively analyze what works for YOU in that respect.
From the power level side of it, I would personally choose the 124 grain +P over the other two loads you mention, unless I found it much harder to control.