So what would you do if you caught your wife with another man?

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  1. Robert Cohen

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    Nothing physical. Wife makes over 4 times the active income I now make, so it would be financial in nature.
     
  2. 686Owner

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    No Devil's threesome?
     

  3. redrick

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    That would be the only way that I would re-marry , if she was worth more than me . I know that is sad to say , but true .
     
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  4. Need4Speed

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    One wiener rule is in effect. Mine.
     
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  5. Travelinman

    Travelinman Banned

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    Being married for 54 years the other man would probably be using a wheelchair.

    I would just scamper away.:fred:
     
  6. Lonestar 48

    Lonestar 48 Silver Member

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    I think I would ask her to call when they were finished up. Then I would get some beer and go sit on Hannie's beach for a day or two. Hopefully we could remain friends, my wife and I not Hannie, but the marriage part would be over.
     
  7. fastbolt

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    Now that the first blush of youth is far past ...

    My first words would be, "Tag. You're it."
     
  8. Upgrayedd

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    It's not gay when its in a 3 way.....
     
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  9. GW06

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    When that happened to me many years ago, I found out everybody but me knew about it. I kept wondering if heads would explode like watermelons when shot with a rifle. I realized what the consequences would be and dropped those thoughts. I ended up with the house and financially was better off. I bought motorcycle and put many miles on it.

    She had to get a job to help support her and her boyfriend.

    Several years later, she called to talk about a financial situation and then apologized to me. It was appreciated but much too late.

    That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

    Frank in Phoenix
     
  10. WeeWilly

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    I have always told her, if she decides to stray, just make sure he can afford you. :)
     
  11. Ricky Ricardo

    Ricky Ricardo Incorrigible

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  12. AdamRodgers

    AdamRodgers Kilt in Da Streetz since 1999

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    Been married once, won't get married again till my daughter is grown. My GF feels the same way about her kid & getting married before the children are grown.

    Ant no cheating going on in diss house, hell we dont have the time.:animlol:
     
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  13. Terry G

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    Nothing violent, that hurt's you more than them in the long run. Bank first, then lawyer. An expensive one. A big financial revenge is best if it can be arranged. A co-worker had this happen and he did just this. A no-fault state, so she was entitled to half his pension but he was entitled to half hers. The bill's were split and he could pay his half she couldn't. He ended up with the house she ended up in a run down trailer court. The pensions cancelled each other out. He was the big winner if you can call it that. He did have the satisfaction of her begging to be taken back after the boy friend beat her up and totaled her car.
     
  14. Hilux1911

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    It’d cost me 99
     
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  15. Joshhtn

    Joshhtn The eBay Guy Gold Member

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    I'd dig my key into the side Of her pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive and carve my name into her leather seats. I'd take a Louisville slugger to both head lights and slash a hole in all four tires.

    Maybe next time she'll think before she cheats....
     
  16. Pistol Pap

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    Tons of women out there. I’m reminded of it every time me and the wife leave the house. Nothing worth a murder-suicide
     
  17. Intolerant

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    No marriage comes with any guarantee`s or warranty's.
    Study the vows BEFORE you get married! Marriage is a life long commitment.

    No marriage is trouble free. It has its moments.
    What you do in those moments, will change your life forever!

    My wife an i tell each other every single day, that we love each other.
    NEVER let your wife go to bed and close her eyes without you telling her that you love her.

    My wife an i have been married for over 40yrs.
    We love each other more and more as we grow much older.

    My wife spoils me... and i spoil her. That`s what its suppose to be all about.
    Love for each other, enjoy life!

    Yes, there are temptations, there always will be. You have to be strong and deflect the devil.
    If you don`t, then you never really respected or loved your spouse to start with.

    Communication speaks volume`s... TALK to each other!
     
  18. ModGlock17

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    What if the other woman is Caitlyn Jenner ? or even Megan rapineau.
     
  19. Intolerant

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    I can just visualize you doing that...lol
     
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  20. Lt. Donn

    Lt. Donn PSO Survivor. currently in NW Georgia

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    Finally!....it only took 52 responses to get to a rational, compassionate person...kudos!
     
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