So a buddy is in the doghouse tonight.

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by Batesmotel, Nov 20, 2019.

  1. pizza_pablo

    pizza_pablo USN Retired

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    With us, it's just the opposite. I use her phone, she uses mine, I get stuff out of her purse, she can get whatever I have out of whatever it is in.
    Nothing to hide, but we've been together since we were 17 & 15. Everything there is to know about each other, we know.
    Not trying to brag. That's just how it is.
    In fact, I'm sure there are some, here, that would disagree with this 'arrangement'.
     
  2. jame

    jame I don't even know....what I'm doing here....

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    Oh, we have nothing to hide, but we allow a few boundaries regardless, just as a matter of mutual respect.

    It kinda goes like this for us:
    Before we were married back in 1981, I had a great aunt offer this advice. She said that on the day that one of us is brushing their teeth while the other is sitting on the toilet, the honeymoon will be over. She said to always allow a little private space, regardless of what’s said.

    So, we allow each other a little independence. I guess it works a little different for everyone.
     
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  3. TBO

    TBO Why so serious? CLM

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    Z71bill

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    I list my wife as

    ICE Snow Queen

    ICE = in case of emergency

    Snow queen because she likes snow.
     
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  5. Hannie Caulder

    Hannie Caulder Diva extraordinaire

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    Seriously? His old GF's phone number above his wife's number? He shouldn't even have his old GF's number on his phone.


    LOL. Touche'.
     
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    pizza_pablo USN Retired

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    Do you have the phone number of your boss, in your phone?


    And how would one put someone above someone else, on their favorite contacts list? It's alphabetical...or is that custom order an eyePhone thingy?
     
  7. Hannie Caulder

    Hannie Caulder Diva extraordinaire

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    I'm my own boss.
     
  8. pizza_pablo

    pizza_pablo USN Retired

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    Nice dodge.
     
  9. fg17

    fg17

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    I think we did that about 6 months into dating:D that was about 32 years ago.
     
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    Been there and had that done to me too, more than once.

    There is a reason I stand with the late great W.C. Fields.

    "Women to me are like elephants. I like to look at 'em, but I wouldn't want to own one!"

    Gray_Rider
    Infamous
    Old Secessh
     
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  11. Need4Speed

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    Women are ****ing nuts. Every one of them.
     
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    I had the same experience just 2 years ago. Now X GF was always on the look out for me doing something naughty with another woman. She never stopped her pressure on me all the time we were together. And guess what !!... Friend of mine saw her ad and picture in the Personal's of craigs list. She captioned her picture saying that she was in a relationship and did not want to change anything. She went on to say that things were a little boring and wanted to change that. She wanted friends first but more would come later.

    I showed her ad to her and asked her how it was working and also advised her that she has until the end of the day to get the "F" out and after that the locks are getting changed and her key to the gate will not be any good.

    Thank God I did not marry her like she insisted.
     
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    TBO Why so serious? CLM

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    I'm shocked!:goodpost:
     
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    Wow, what a miserable life.
     
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    Mayhem like Me Semper Paratus

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    Yes I’m being serious my wife and one of my ex-girlfriend’s are best friends women with complexes are baggage you need to get rid of them,You need to trust your partner or you don’t, my wife and I trust each other.
    Most of my favorites on my phone are work contacts because my phone automatically puts those I call most at the top of the list


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
     
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    When I was not my own boss, I had my boss's number in my phone. It was labeled "Work"
     
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    Fred Florist

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    That's how Elin Nordegren discovered Tiger Woods escapades. Subsequently, she took a 9-iron and went after Tiger. Good choice of club, I must say. The 9-iron is shorter, good for a quick swing, and heavier at the club head. Then Tiger made up that story for the press about crashing is Cadillac into the tree in his subdivision, showing a bleeding nose.

    Falsifying testimony to the press. Good for an impeachment hearing nowadays. LOL
     
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    Agree, similar what I posted. I have personally witnessed it many times. The wife knows the relationship between her husband and boss of 20 years and former girlfriend. The wife is looking for a excuse to justify her behavior or thoughts. If she is not cheating, she is not happy with things and will soon cheat. If she has never acted like this before, something else is up.

    Did I tell you that women are sneaky.