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Regarding Okie.....

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by Detectorist, Jul 9, 2013.

  1. Detectorist

    Detectorist

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    There was something bothering me today and I finally realized that a lot of our grief is caused by not having the opportunity to say goodby.

    I had ample time to say goodby to my dad before he passed.

    However, Okie's sudden passing didn't leave us any time to say our goodbys... which makes it more painful.
     
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  2. EdTracker

    EdTracker GTDS Lifetime Member

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    Our lives are so short. Kiss those you love. Even those you don't cause it might piss them off.
     

  3. bobby_w

    bobby_w Alienigena Platinum Member

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    I called 9 friends and went and visited 4 of my neighbors today because of this.

    Also attended a Funeral for my neighbor of 18 years who lived 3 houses down. 92 years old and a Great Man.

    I am all cried out, finally.
     
  4. 2bgop

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    I have had several friends pass in the last 2 months, not a single one has been over 60. One was 42 and died driving home from dropping his daughter off at school.

    Scares the crap out of me.
     
  5. mixflip

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    Im attending a funeral this weekend for someone very close to me. She died at 36 of an aortic aneurysm. Trust me when I tell you, I have changed my outlook on life.

    We had no time to say goodbye. She went in for chest pains and 45 minutes later a doctor was asking us to please sit down because he had to tell us something.

    I am still struggling with the loss. I still talk to her on facebook for some reason.

    My heart and prayers go out to Okie and his family and friends.
     
  6. Deployment Solu

    Deployment Solu Kydex Crafter

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    Goodbye Okie!! You will be missed!!!!
     
  7. faawrenchbndr

    faawrenchbndr DirtyThirty fan CLM

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    Keep in mind, Okie would not want us to be saddened by his passing. remember Mark when you see a white Dodge truck. Remember Mark when you see a man in a camouflage shirt. remember Mark when you see a picture of Alf. And most importantly, remember Mark when you order a taco, especially a Blackjack Taco.
     
  8. deputy tom

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    My niece's husband passed away about the same time as okie and just as unexpectedly. He was only 43 years old. Nobody got a chance to say good bye. The funeral is tomorrow. Sad. tom.
     
  9. faawrenchbndr

    faawrenchbndr DirtyThirty fan CLM

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    Sorry to hear of the loss Tom
     
  10. silentpoet

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    I always try to tell my mom last thing "I love you" Because you never know when it will be the last thing you say.
     
  11. silentpoet

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    Funny thing about a white dodge truck. Last night on top gear they played the episode where they try to drive cheap used cars across the US. Well one was a white dodge truck. Made me think of Okie, well aside from the big pink "Man Love Rules" lettering on the side.
     
  12. Jake514

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    ^^^Yes, absolutely remember a good man.
     
  13. ca survivor

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    ^^^ this and Wal-Mart.........
     
  14. Steel Head

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    Poof and he was gone:dunno:
    It's impressive how many good things people here have said about him though.
    Not too many people in the world like that.
    I'm certainly not in his class.