How many of you been cheated on? And how did you find out? How did you handle it??? Had a buddy come by distraught, his wife of 14 years 3 beautiful daughters, some body emailed him (anonymously) pics of her kissing (not peck) a dude (I am assuming a stripper) with her mouth open, like at a bachelorette party or something... He is in shock, I don't know if it has hit him... I didn't even know what to say to him, all I did was hear him, he was gonna confront her this evening.... But seems stuff like this is not uncommon... It appears that he has sought some kind of trust in me. But I don't know crap about this stuff..... What advice, suggestions, would you give? If you could do Something different what would it have been???.. I am not a counselor I am not a judge I am nobody qualified in any capacity to discuss some issue but when some one confides in you what do you do?? Any advice....Anything anything I dont know what to tell him, I was just shocked too.