Joyce was with her doctor, Dr. Ginsberg. Suddenly, she asked him will you kiss me? Certainly not Dr. Ginsberg said. We must preserve a distance in this sort of relationship. Well, Joyce said, will you hold my hand? Not even that, Dr. Ginsberg said. Its important that we keep this on a non-emotional basis. Will you tell me that you like me a lot? Try to understand, Dr. Ginsberg told Joyce, I cant kiss you, I cant hold your hand, I cant even tell you that I like you. Goodness me, we shouldnt even be in bed together!