I am just wondering what ya'll think about an 18yo boy, who has never had a job, who can only wear "Polo" brand name shirts and who cannot complete even the simplest of tasks heading up to N. Dakota to woek in the oils fields for the summer? He has no skills and no sense. He and his buddy think they are just going to roll on up there and make some serious cash. Part of me wants to just let him go and wish him well, maybe he will learn some responsibility and become a man. The other part of me wants to warn him of the brutally hard work, spartan living conditions and cost of living he will face. I personally don't think he will be able to handle it, and then his mother and I will have to bail him out. What do you all think? Would you let your 18yo son (stepson)?