Dear Abby: My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning. When I confront him, he denies everything. Whats worse is everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating? Also since he lost his job two years ago, he hasnt even looked for a new one. All he does is sit around the living room in his underwear and watch TV while I work to pay the bills. And since our daughter went away to college he doesnt even pretend to like me. He keeps calling me a lesbian. What should I do? Signed Clueless. Dear Clueless: Dump him. Youre a New York senator. You dont need him anymore.