This is a hypothetical situation my wife and I were talkng about and had very different ideas about how to deal with it. If you had your handgun out (for whatever reason) and your 4 year old son came up and tried to grab it while you were momentarily distracted and he was able to actually put his hand on it while you were holding it. What would you do? My inital reaction would probably be violent to make a believer out of him and to remind him to never do that again. My wife of course thinks you should talk and explain why what he did was wrong ect. What say you?