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How much dishonesty can you take?

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by Hussell_Crowe, Aug 24, 2013.

  1. Bruce M

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    I agree - the entertainment here can be first rate. With Sam Kinison and John Belushi dead, you can't find better at any price.
     
  2. gwalchmai

    gwalchmai Lucky Member

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    You need to find another girl. She's not the one.

    Really. It won't get better on its on. You might try couples counseling but it seems to me that you're wanting a lot more commitment than she does. I think you either need to make active efforts to deal with her seeing other guys (counseling) or break it off before you become one of those GnG "cry-in-your-beer" stories.
     

  3. DanaT

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    You are sounding desperate.
     
  4. GlockPride

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    How big is the Bravia and the teeth, how are they?
     
  5. 686Owner

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    I think that is a picture of someone "leaving" the Thunderbirds for what is about to happen to that very expensive jet.
     
  6. DanaT

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    Close....
     
  7. bunk22

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    This and I have no idea as to why people share their dirty laundry, personal life on the internet. As it is, most likely, dudes have already been balls deep dude...plenty of fish in the sea. Move on!!!
     
  8. devildog2067

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    This.

    Come on dude. You're 25. It'd be different if you'd been married for years and had kids and a house and history together. Relationships are hard work sometimes, and when there's all that baggage there's a lot of incentive to make things work.

    But 6 months. Come on. Dump her and don't look back.
     
  9. Hussell_Crowe

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    Nah, I'm not desperate. I'm just in no hurry to run out and find a replacement girl, for the sake of doing so. I haven't talked to her since yesterday-hopefully a day or two of space will help. I guess I can't change or control if she wants to talk to other guys, she's not my slave, but like I said...I asked her if she could ever see ME doing the things she's done and she simply replied " No ".
     
  10. ked

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    my story was VERY similar. so i'll make this short.....

    Bail, Bail, BAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!

    not making a joke, i just have been there.

    and for Gods sake, quit having sex with her, because if she gets pregnant, you life is going to be a living nightmare. and so is the kids.

    ked
     
  11. devildog2067

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    So don't. Find a girlfriend. A different one.

    There's absolutely no reason to try and make things work with this one other than your laziness.
     
  12. faawrenchbndr

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    It sux,.......but get out of this, before it gets much worse.
    Seen this first hand before.
     
  13. LEO/Dad

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    Goodbye.......get on with your life with someone with values in your best interest.
     
  14. Glockaround the Clock

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    I'm sorry but really? She wants to have a bunch of male friends? You can stick around and get hurt or move on.
     
  15. NMG26

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    waiting for page six......I'm thinking one hour. It is 3:45.
     
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  16. Michael Rye

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    Hussell, listen to me carefully...

    The problem with dealing with a liar is, at the point you acknowledge that the person has lied to you...you have no choice but to question everything and anything that person says from now on. And being in love with a liar makes it a thousand times worse.

    I've been there, done that, and got the t-shirt.
     
  17. GlockPride

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    You are being played. Like a fiddle. How much financial support are you providing? Cause that must be the only reason you're still the 'boyfriend'.
     
  18. Rabbi

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    Go find your dude friends and tell them this story. If they dont ridicule you into dumping her, you also failed with your dude friends.

    Good choices, go make them.
     
  19. paul45

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    Oh for Gods Sakes....Really?:upeyes:

    Please....if you buy your own BS, then prepare for financial and emotional ruin.

    Please....do not be a chump. It is so obvious she is got 4 or 5 boyfriends and playing ALL of youse for chumps.

    I also say....EJECT.
     
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  20. DanaT

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    Go back and read post 3.....