and it's depressing. How do I meet them in college especially? I go to a university, but during the summer I take a class at community college to save money and transfer the credits over. Like in my class there is this one hot looking chick. Really hot. The teacher breaks us up into groups and today she was in my group. Of course I didn't say a lot because I was nervous and because you can't hit on her with others around? How the world am I supposed to talk to them then? Should I just randomly look her up on facebook or would that be creepy? We will be doin a group project soon so always a chance I could be in her group, then I'd have her cell number and email addy. I'm really down though. It's like the girls don't like me. Im more mid, later 20s but look really young. Most girls think I'm more around 20.Like at the university last year my first year there I met some hottie. Like see us new students to the university get what we call connection leaders at orientation. They're students like us but been there a year or more already. They are there to like talk to if you have any questions, hangout with ect. At orientation I didn't have one and it just happend this hot chick leader saw me and said she'd be my connection leader. Anyways I only hungout with her once and she didn't have a boyfriend so i started hitting on her and that. Like she then blocked me on facebook, and then she texted me one day to please not talk to her anymore that she isn't interested.