Regret is such a poisonous pill. No sense creating a festering wound based on assumptions. That said, there are a couple girls I wonder about and regret not pursuing further. There is one, I would like to get in touch with but I can't seem to track her down. The other I saw a couple years ago. We didn't speak, but I'm pretty sure she recognized me. She looks great, married, is now a teacher. We dated in HS, I broke it off because I was just too young and not ready for a big commitment. I've been divorced and widowed, always wondered how thing would have turned out if we would have stayed together. I can say fairly confidently that I never met my "soul mate". I've dated girls I could have married, loved, and got along with, but not my soul mate. If I had to do it all over again I would settle for nothing less. And while I waited for my soul mate I would date more busty red heads.