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Got slapped and hit by a girl at the bar, AGAIN!

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by DR. HOUSE, Mar 1, 2010.

  1. DR. HOUSE

    DR. HOUSE Everybody Lies

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    Here's the story.

    About a month ago my fiance and her friends went out to celebrate her best friends birthday.

    It was a girls night and I was not invited to join.

    So I did my own thing for the majority of the night. It was almost closing time and my fiance had called me to come join them as they were back at the bar in our home town.

    I got there and was talking to my fiance and some of her friends.

    Her friend, Girl #1 had called me over to talk to me. (not her best friend)

    She then continues to slap me and say what a retard I was for ruining girls night. (around 1 hour till closing time)

    The slaps felt more playful to me but she was using good force.

    I didnt say anything I just waved her off and went and told my fiance what she did.

    She thought that was a dumb thing for her to say and do, all her other friends agreed.

    This girl is inmature and cant hold her booze. She's engaged to a soldier that is currently serving across sea's and she sleep's with a different guy almost every other week. (the truth)

    About a week later we went to a benefit dance and she was there. She had pulled my fiance aside and asked her if I was mad at her.

    She had lied and told her no. Im not after revenge or anything like that.

    I just completly ingnore them and she could tell that because I wouldnt even look/talk to her.

    I just blew her off because I dont care for her. Shes just annoying and a spoiled little brat that needs to grow up.

    Keep in mind im 24 and she just turned 21. (she drank all the time in high school)

    Im past the lets drink to get drunk stage which she obviously isnt.

    SO, for the again part. (different girl, not to sure of her age but I think 21)

    We went out to the bar to get out and visit with some friends.

    We were talking and minding our own.

    I was playing pool in the back room and I came out to visit with my fiance after we had lost the table.

    She told me that such and such (cant remember her name) wanted us to come over for breakfast after closing time.

    I just wanted to go home because I was kind of tired and I couldnt stand the girl.

    She's good friends with # 1 girl and acts just the same.

    I told my fiance that I didnt feel like it and I just wanted to go home.

    Out of no where a few minuets later girl #2 came up behind me and slaps me in the back of the head and tells me to stop being a duche bag.

    I blew up.

    I turned around and I said (in a loud tone) something along the lines of: What the **** is up with girls hittng me and slapping me, cant you just keep your ****ing hands to yourself. Im ****ing tired of this bull****.

    The hits were not very hard but I had enough of this ****. (didnt care for her to start with)

    She then said I want invited anymore and just my fiance was. BOO HOO!

    Reminded me of an upset 1st grader telling someone that they couldnt come to their birthday party.

    After she stormed off I was still pissed and I said, I swear to god the next ****ing woman that hits me or slaps me, I will knock her ****ing head off. (didnt mean it, I would never hit a girl though I would restrain her if I had to)

    Things mellowed out at our table and we went back to talking.

    she then texted my fiance "sorry but hes an ***"

    Her husband and his friends were looking at me and talking about me.

    The guy on the other side of the table said they were talking **** and I told him that I didnt care the least bit.

    I then started thinking to myself, Great now theres going to be a fight.

    I was waiting for him and his buddy's to come over to our table and tell me I was in the wrong.

    We ended up leaving without any troubles.

    We got home and about 45 minuets later she got another text saying "your fiance is a duche"

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    I dont know why this is bothering me. I know what kind of spoiled brat she is and how they act. I dont care if people think im an *******. Keep your ****ing hands to yourself and we will all get along fine.

    Just needed to vent I guess.
     
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  2. fnfalman

    fnfalman Chicks Dig It

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    Bone her and call it a day. It's obvious that she wants you.
     

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    She wants to be your hat. Your girlfriend probably knows, keep that in mind.
     
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    Damn..... aren't you a little old for High School drama? :rofl:
     
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    BAILIFF Piece Officer

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    That'll come in real handy...
     
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    Graves Diesel Junky

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    If your girl was worth her salt, she'd straighten these divas out or cut all ties. Otherwise you're in for a loooooong ride my friend.
     
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    Several of my girlfriends friends are like that, i cant stand them.
     
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    Why is your fiance hanging out with immature people like that?
     
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    Sounds like your fiance's friends have some issues with you.

    That is never a good thing.

    I'm not one who really cares about such things (if her friends like me or not), but the problem is that when they don't like you they try to break up relationships.

    I'm with you though, I hate it when women think they can just hit you or say whatever they want just because you're a guy and won't hit them.
     
  10. DR. HOUSE

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    She really dosnt, just now and again do we ever see girl #2

    She used to work with girl #2 and they didnt get along the best. The lazy type that always thinks she dosnt have to do that job.

    Girl #1 is a friend from childhood that we seldomly see also.

    Girl #1 isnt TO bad to be around if she hasnt been drinking.
     
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    Why does your fiancé keep putting you in these positions? My girl knows that EVERYTIME we go to a club someone wants to fight me. So we don't go to clubs unless we are with a big group of friends.

    Avoid the situation completely by not hanging out with them.
     
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    flatag Must have tacos

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    What is this jr. high?
     
  13. DR. HOUSE

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    If you live life caring what other asshats think of you then you yourself are no better.

    Why care what someone that inmature thinks of you?

    If it was a friend or relative then its a different story.
     
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    Remind me again why I haven't been to a bar willingly since about 1985?
     
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    maynardwix Notre Dame Fan!

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    This......

    and this.
     
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    We wnt to the bar not knowing that girl #2 was comming. She came after we were there and we had never had any real problems up untill that night.

    I got along with girl #1 up untill she hit me also (first incident).

    She didnt know any better what was going to happen then i did.
     
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    Never hit a lady, but if she hits you, she forfeits her right to be a lady.
     
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    I would never tell my wife who she could or couldn't hang out with. However if she didn't do or say anything to someone who she claims is a friend that disrespected me like that and continued to disrespect me directly to her I think I would be looking for someone else.

    Whats that shes just your fiance you say? The old adage of plenty of fish in the sea comes to mind...
     
  19. DR. HOUSE

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    Shes not much for confrontation and she is pretty emotional. Her way of dealing with people like that is to just ingnore them.

    Im not putting her to blame.

    However, I will have to see how this pans out in the future.

    EI: Her going over to her house knowing that I cant stand her and am probably not welcome.
     
  20. Thx-1138

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    This.

    Somebody slaps or hits me, I'm likely to return the favor, or press charges.

    I'm not a punching bag; I don't tolerate it, and I'm not about to let other people think that I do.