Like the title says, the big day is coming up soon. We've been dating for 7 yrs, engaged for 1, and long distance (usually different states) for the past 5+. The long distance part has been because of school and our careers. It's definitely not for everyone. Will be finding out in the next few days if we'll be living in the same place after marriage (my job is fixed right now, hers TBD soon). Besides "DON'T DO IT!!!" any helpful tips from the veterans? It can be exhausting work, this relationship business.