FIND A GOOD ARTIST! AND LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE, YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR! A good Tattoo artist is not CHEAP! My first was my Daughter's name and then it went a little farther than I had expected, and that one, now has turned into quite a bit of ink. I like it, my kid thinks it is cool Daddy has her name permanently on his arm, and the Girlfriend is definitely into it So do your homework, and for Lord sake don't rush into it. There sorta permanent ya know. Also I can wear a suit and not the first person would know I had any ink on me anywhere, like I am gonna wear a suit so get it were you and your wife will be the only one's to see it if you're that worried. Oh and wait on the ink on the knuckles, forehead, or ass.... Oh don't get women's names inked on ya, unless it's your kid, sometimes that doesn't turn out well, even tho yall may have been together for a long, LOOOONG time.