Hey guys, Not new to guns (a lot more involved with shotguns - sporting clays and skeet), but I've never actually had a CCW despite the fact that I've had my Conceal Carry Permit for 5 years now ha. My wife has a Ruger P95, but it's a clunky gun that mostly sits in the safe. Anyways...for years I thought I had my mind set on a Glock 19. My dad owns one, I've shot it, etc. I figured I would mostly get one for home defense. Now I'm thinking if I am going to purchase something, I ought to get something I can conceal carry if I want to. I am 6'1" and 185 lbs - I'm not sure how well I could conceal the Glock 19, but I've never tried. I've started to look more seriously at the Glock 48 (maybe the Glock 43X). Then I started doing more research and came across the Sig P365 and P365XL. I've heard a couple people state that if they could only have one handgun it would be the P365XL. I started looking pretty seriously at the P365XL, but now I am caught up on the whole safety thing - should I purchase the version with the manual safety? Does this gun need one? I'm a bit ignorant here as I've just never conceal carried before. Not to mention I can't even seem to find a P365XL with the manual safety. Any feedback, suggestions, etc would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.