Two recent threads are about weed and spouse cheating. Imagine your own scenario. People who smoke weed range from one-time users to weekly users. Spouse cheaters range from people who seek out cheating to situational backsliding. Weed is generally illegal; cheating is generally legal. So what about it? You know a weed smoker and a spouse cheater. Whos ethical? Whos unethical? Who would you hire? Whos your friend? Who do you trust?