Do you ever dream about you're EX!

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  1. hardeyes

    hardeyes

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    Hello;

    I don't know what is going on, but I've been having these very real dreams about my Ex.

    Most of them are about Me reuniting with her, and hooking up.

    It's very real, and I dream about her a couple of times a month.

    I don't feel like I'm cheating on my GF, but I don't know why I'm dreaming about my ex-girlfriend.

    It's like I still miss her.

    Anyone have any such dreams about the one that got away, you're ex, or maybe someone you just miss.

    I feel bad about it, I've been with my Girl for a few years now with no problems, or so I thought.

    This is confusing, I don't know what she'll think about this.

    What's going on?

    hardeyes
     
  2. tbhracing

    tbhracing Senior Member

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    First- Yes, I have had dreams of ex's.

    Second- You need to get over your ex, thats why you are having dreams about her. Move on.
     
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  3. hardeyes

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    It's funny because it's been years since I've even been with this girl (my ex). Then all of a sudden, I'm having these crazy dreams about my ex.

    I like your third answer, it's too late to go out, but I'll follow thru. :cool:

    hardeyes
     
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    Woofie Disirregardless CLM

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    I've had dreams about an ex even over two years after the relationship ended. Mostly they're about me nailing her and then saying all the things I wanted the chance to tell her after she flushed me. I guess I still want some revenge . . .

    I actually saw her a few weeks ago. She smiled and waved and wanted to talk. I thought about what I wanted to talk about, then I just nodded and turned the other way. I may not be classy, but I'm still better than she is.
     
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    LongGoneDays Misanthropical

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    I never have a dream that I am my ex. Why would you ask such a silly thing?
     
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    DrMaxit Dirtbag Airman

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    I dream about my ex.. the one that "got away" very often. I don't know why... but I do. For the record I say "got away" but honestly I left her... and still regret that.
     
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    Woofie Disirregardless CLM

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    Catch and release is great for the environment, not the family.
     
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    DrMaxit Dirtbag Airman

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    Yeah I had to learn that the hard way.....
     
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    I had such dreams, for years after.

    Happily remarried, I only think of her with pity now.
     
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    Glock20 10mm Use Linux!

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    Sometimes I do about my recent, but it's generally about her having to eat her words... and we don't get back together and I don't want to. But mostly it's about her being in a position where she needs my help or something of that nature... and I get to tell her to get lost... along with a few other things I never got the chance to tell her.

    I do have great dreams about the Catalonian chick I was dating!!! :whistling::wow: All good and all based off of memories... ah how I miss her!
     
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    NorthCarolinaLiberty MentalDefective

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    You're going to tell her?!?



    :shakehead:
     
  12. BSteadman

    BSteadman WidowMaker

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    Never ever...Never ever dreamt about the X. The only time I was ever dreaming was when I said I do!!! Dream about the X NFW :faint:

     
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    ATL Peach Girl ♥Meezers♥

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    Hardeyes.......

    It must be you have your ex in your subconscience somehow.

    I have my own stories about my ex BF's......I grieved for a long time over two of those relationships ending. It was a terrible time.
     
  14. holyjohnson

    holyjohnson probably on theboresite.com right now.

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    only one time years ago.
    i had a bat **** crazy ex,and had a dream she was standing over me while my wife and i were sleeping with my Wuesthof chef`s knife.she was holding an old kids baby doll and repeating over and over "i told you i`d love you forever"
    not really something i`d put past her either.
    and DON`T,DO NOT! tell your Girlfriend about the dreams.
    it`s probably an issue of "where is she now?" more then wishing you were with her.or something subconscious reminded you of her.
    give it more time and if they don`t stop maybe,maybe tell her about it.
    but that`s NOT a good can of worms to open,ever.
     
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    ya i dream of my ex.. choking her!
     
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    Not a day goes by that I don't think about my ex, and I didn't think about her again today until you posted this. Thanks :burn:

    Actually, my ex was killed in a horrible accident last weekend, no wait, that's next weekend, never mind.
     
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    Hello;

    In my Dreams, I'm telling her how good it is to see her, etc. I don't know where these feelings are coming from, it's weird.

    hardeyes
     
  18. hardeyes

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    Hello;

    I know a lot of guys (even married), that still think (maybe even love), their ex's.

    We had a very good relationship, I think that's what bringing back the memories.

    hardeyes
     
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    flatag Must have tacos

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    That's not a dream it is a nightmare
     
  20. hardeyes

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    :supergrin:

    hardeyes