I had the honor of meeting Omar Bradley twice in the year he died. I worked in the Ft. Bliss commanding general's conference room at the time. General Bradley would address the young lieutenants attending an officers course. His aide would bring him into the conference room in his wheel chair and pin a microphone to his lapel while the attendees stood at attention. Once his lap blanket was adjusted he would say, "at ease. Please take your seats." It was so quiet in the room that you couldn't hear anyone sit down. These young lieutenants were awestruck by the history before them. As a young Spec 4 I was too. I had to closely monitor the sound system. General Bradley's voice was hard to pick up even with the lavalier microphone. He always told two stories aimed at helping the officers understand their role as leaders. I can't remember the second story, but the first story always got a laugh, the only time I'd hear anything from the officers.
General Bradley related that when he was a young captain he decided to take a vehicle by himself and drive to a nearby town. (my memory isn't helping me right now. He was a captain in WWI, but my memory says that this story took place in WWII. Regardless, the events are as I remember his telling of the story.)
He had driven across an open field toward a sentry post. The sentry stopped him and challenged him. Captain Bradley identified himself and the sentry responded that the captain wasn't supposed to be driving across that field. Bradley replied that he was a captain and would drive where ever he wanted. He said he gained added respect for enlisted soldiers when the sentry replied "the mines in the minefield you just crossed don't care if you're a captain or not Sir."
He would then tell the young officers that he wanted them to understand that although they were leaders and were responsible for their men they should never take them for granted. "Listen to your men and then make your decision for the best course of action."
General Bradley would frequently fall asleep for a few minutes during these encounters. His aide would quietly stand to his side and slightly behind him waiting for him to awaken. Not one person in the room would make a sound. And then the General would wake up and continue where he left off.
I had the honor of meeting his wife when I accompanied officers from the Ft. Bliss command group to his house below the William Beaumont Army Medical Center. Hell, I can't even remember why we went there.
It was a sad day when he passed away.
I also had the honor of having Thanksgiving dinner with General John Wickham Jr. while I was stationed in Korea in 1979. I was the Soldier of the Quarter for the 38th Brigade and because of that I received the invitation. I was very happy to see that there were about fifteen to twenty other soldiers there also. Wickham explained that his wife was stateside for the holiday and he thought it would be nice to have some company. LOL
In any event, it was a most awkward gathering for me. I can count at least three separate incidents in which I completely embarrassed myself in front of the general. In addition, my first sergeant thought I had completely lost my mind when I asked if I could decline the invitation. "YOU DON"T ****IN' DECLINE AN INVITATION TO THANKSGIVING DINNER FROM THE TOP OFFICER IN KOREA BOY!!!!"
I'm very thankful that I had taken a leak before I stepped into Tops office that day.