I need some legal advice. I am in Dallas Texas. My divorce was in Dallas many years ago. My wife defaulted on the papers she was served and never showed in court. I had the papers drawn up showing I had custody of the kids and child support was not defined and to be handled by the parents to care for the kids. The judge struck down the part about me having custody because they lived with her at the time and then finalized the divorce. Nothing has happened since then. Despite all that I have paid her monthly $200 and when the kids lived with me, she paid me. I have carried health insurance on them and split all major expenses, casts, braces, clothes, shoes, things like that with her ever since then. For a year or so she had one of the boys and I had the other. We negated all support during that time but I still carried insurance on them. Everything was fine until my oldest hit 18 and I no longer pay for him. Her and her new husband went and got themselves in debt and now she has gone to the AGs office. I have a negotiation meeting on 4-11. I dont mind adjusting or establishing child support for my boy(s) going forward but I really dont want to give her any money for the past. Especially since they lived about half of that time with me. Anything she ever came to me with I paid. Can she go backwards on me? Please dont guess. Base your response on experience or legal background. I have an attorney working on this but I want several opinions. I don't want to go into this meeting unprepared.