Lately I'm seeing lots of twenty-something year olds that can't function without their parents. I work with a woman that has a 21 year old daughter (sorry no pictures). They must talk on the phone 10 times a day. The mom is here in CA with me, the daughter goes to school in Flagstaff. The other day the daughter calls the mom and tells her, the gloves she has aren't warm enough. How do I know what the call was about? Because I hear the mom say, "I'll go to REI after work, buy you gloves and FedEx them to you. You should have them tomorrow". What the hell is going on in America? When I was that age, if I told my parents my hands were cold, they would say "go buy warmer gloves". So here are ysr_racer's rules for being a loser. If any of the following apply to you, guess what, loooooser !! Your mom makes your meals Your mom does your laundry Your mom is your best friend You still live at home You talk to your mom every day America is in sad shape. I'm wondering if this is the reason we see so many mass shootings by 20 year old kids, they can't function in the real world.