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After a YEAR, Finally...

Discussion in 'Carry Issues' started by G22DaD, Nov 12, 2011.

  1. G22DaD

    G22DaD

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    ...My wife is going for her carry permit. She's taking the Handgun Safety Course today. She's kinda nervous. I'm sure she'll be fine. I've tried to work with her some, whenever she'd let me.

    I'm pretty stoked about her finally getting to send some rounds down range! Hopefully, she'll let me hang out with her @ the range and train. But, then again... I always preferred to train alone, maybe she would too. We'll see.
     
  2. usmc4641

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    While you may prefer to train alone, she will be your first line of back up and vice versa should something happen at home. Get to know each others' firearms and capabilities with them.
     

  3. G22DaD

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    usmc4641,
    Absolutely man.. I hear ya. I definately believe in the " Two is one, one is none" idea. I guess, I just need to take my time so she'll be comfortable with me. She's still pretty self conscious right now. She's one of those folks that seems to be good at whatever she chooses to do, y'know? This is a little further outside of her comfort zone. I'm no stranger to that feeling either. I'll continue to encourage her and continually invite her to go to the range with me whenever I train. I think we'll have fun! Have a great day!
     
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  4. ithaca_deerslayer

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    Ok, I'll relay some personal observations of other people I've seen. This has nothing to do with you, because I don't know you.

    In general, men can't teach their wives. Can't teach them skiing. Can't teach them shooting.

    First problem is, the average guy doesn't know how to teach. He may know about something like a gun, and how to shoot it, or at least thinks he does. But he doesn't know how to teach.

    For the guy who can teach well, perhaps because he's trained as a teacher, he still probably can't teach his wife. They've got a lot of baggage between them that tends to get in the way.

    Therefore, perhaps consider finding some NRA pistol instructor that she might want to learn from. Might even be another woman. Or could be a man. But not you :tongueout:

    No guarentee that the first instructor you find will work out. But it is a start, and your odds of finding good instruction increase if you seek someone who has experience teaching people like your wife :)
     
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  5. Toorop

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    Take a look around this website:

    www.corneredcat.com

    The site is run by a female who shoots a lot. She has a lot of great advice for men in regards to women and shooting. She also has a lot of great advice for women who are interested in shooting as well as self defense.

    It is really worth the time to browse there and read the articles.