After 32 years , my marriage is over

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  1. northslope66

    northslope66

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    so. after 32 years , i have asked my wife for a divorce . the years of being apart and growing apart were too much to take . when i was home i felt pretty much like just a visitor .i still care for her deeply but i have fallen for someone else . a coworker who has also left her husband . two homes broken. the feelings of guilt are dampened by the bliss this new person has brought into my life . everyone i know ,that we know , are shocked . my grown kids are stunned . her husband has been reduced to a crying, begging trainwreck i am both excited for the future and saddened by the wake of heartbreak that has been left in our wake. but life happens . i dont even know why i am putting this out there other than to maybe see if anyone else has left a longterm marriage . i have no regrets at all other than the hurt that has been caused but that is inevitable i suppose and wounds heal over time .
     
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    FullClip Native Mainiac CLM

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    Well, best of luck with your choice. It's a tough call.
     

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    Good luck!
     
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    umm...so, you took another man's wife and the woman cheated on her husband? Good luck.
     
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    My parents divorced after 33 years. He had a girlfriend that everyone in town knew about, I was 30 years old and it still was a huge punch in the gut. My father seems happy now, my mother not so much...good luck

    I didnt speak to my father for about 8-10 years after that, 22 years later we are back on speaking terms
     
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    That's a tough situation to be in. Good luck.

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    So your wife is available now? Just askin'...
     
  8. familyman357

    familyman357 I'd be more cynical, but my apathy prevents it.

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    I don’t either.
     
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    What happened to "...till death do us part?"

    And no, I am NOT advocating murder. You evidently cheated on your wife and this woman evidently cheated on her husband. No sympathy here.
     
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    Joshhtn The eBay Guy Gold Member

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    Anyone that is willing to cheat on their (former) spouse is willing to cheat on their new one...

    Good luck.
     
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    Someone is about to learn a very hard lesson and what is surprising is so late in life! You should know better at your age!



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    Top Glock10mm Previously Jisbell40

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    This X2
     
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    Trench Sweeper On the day of your birth death began stalking you

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    Both of these. But, it sounds to me like you were doing it too so good luck to both of you. You're gonna need it.
     
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    Drama....this post will definitely be in top 10 as dumbest post I’ve ever read!
    Perhaps your Avatar has something to do with decisions? Replace the Whiskey bottle for a Bible, it will help decision making in the future. Guaranteed!!
     
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    I'm guessing you will regret this some years later.
     
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    Rock on, OP. You only go 'round once.
     
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    OP, I am not surprised at the responses here.

    You have indeed wrecked 2 homes. I feel very sorry for your wife, and your side piece's husband.

    At any rate, the decision is made. Good luck.
     
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    This thread delivers, Is she hawt, pictures of feet and teeth, and Bravia..
    Good luck , seriously pics or it Didn't happen
     
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    Is your wife hawt? Asking for a friend.
    Does she have a facebook page and where are you located?




    Not really. IDGAF
     
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    My nephews wife’s mom just left her husband after 30 years of marriage . She hooked up with one of her old boyfriends of 30 years ago on Facebook . She just left one weekend without saying anything to her husband or daughter of where she was . Her daughter was a pretty good detective . She was still on her mothers phone plan and tracked the new number that she had been calling the most and then found out the mans name and found him on Facebook . My nephew said he looks like a 80’s drug dealer and he has 4000 likes or friends on Facebook , all women .

    My nephew and is wife just had 2 babies , that are only 14 months apart . The grandmother loves those babies and spoils them to death . Her daughter told her that she will never see them again .

    I saw her dad over the weekend and I asked him if he noticed anything different in her and he said yes about the time of the covid 19 lockdown and she shaved . He is distraught .
     
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