so. after 32 years , i have asked my wife for a divorce . the years of being apart and growing apart were too much to take . when i was home i felt pretty much like just a visitor .i still care for her deeply but i have fallen for someone else . a coworker who has also left her husband . two homes broken. the feelings of guilt are dampened by the bliss this new person has brought into my life . everyone i know ,that we know , are shocked . my grown kids are stunned . her husband has been reduced to a crying, begging trainwreck i am both excited for the future and saddened by the wake of heartbreak that has been left in our wake. but life happens . i dont even know why i am putting this out there other than to maybe see if anyone else has left a longterm marriage . i have no regrets at all other than the hurt that has been caused but that is inevitable i suppose and wounds heal over time .