Ok so here is the long and short of it. My g/f has 2 kids. Dues to her ex she no longer has custody of them. As of right now her younger sister does. We have been talking about this for a while now and I am going to adopt them. This is going to be a private adoption. I was wondering if any one els had been through this? Just looking for the basics what the process was what steeps you took to get started things like that. Its something we would like to get done fast. Going to go to the lawyer monday but would be nice to know a little before going in.