I guess women (so inclusive, so loving, so progressive) are NIMBY daters after all. "I Asked Reddit Why Trans Guys Like Me Keep Getting Ghosted The subreddit /r/dating_advice didn't hold back, but I actually found the replies strangely cathartic. Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man. Granted that was years ago when only saddos partook and the rest of the world hadn’t joined in to ruin it for us. Ghosting wasn’t even a word back then, let alone a tolerated behaviour. Now dating online is like rifling through the bargain bin in your local supermarket – you scan the aisles quickly for something that catches your eye with little attention paid to anything else. Swipe, swipe, swipe. But dating as a lesbian was more understood, too. People know what that means. As a trans guy, the majority don’t seem to know what to make of me, so they run away. I’ve played around with the big reveal and I know the two are linked. It’s hard not to see a connection when you arrange a second date, drop the T bomb and then she cancels in the next breath. So, I did the most obvious thing to try and understand what was going on – I asked randoms on Reddit. “Why do women vanish when I tell them I'm a trans guy?” https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/...-advice?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter "