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Why Men Don't Want to Marry Nowadays

Discussion in 'The Okie Corral' started by Kurly, Feb 17, 2013.

  1. Mr. Niceguy

    Mr. Niceguy Senior Member

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    Dude...
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  2. Rabbi

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    I could be the Queen of Sheba. Your point was still flat out stupid.
     

  3. devildog2067

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    I'm a scientist.

    When someone makes a statement like

    the demand for evidence is what naturally comes next.
     
  4. Kurly

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    And sir, your point is ignorant. But you'll continue to remain that way unless you try and do a little research first before responding with what YOU believe.

    I just posted a google search that shows many articles with RESEARCH that agree with what I said. One even stated that rape fantasies are the third most common fantasy that women have.

    No where did I imply or say that these rape fantasies are not consensual ones with a trusting partner. In fact, I went out of my way to distinguish it as such. But for someone who clearly believes his opinion is fact, doesn't want to read anything and thinks anyone else who disagrees is "stupid", why should one be surprised.
     
  5. Kurly

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    [ame="http://www.google.com/search?q=women+rape+fantasies&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS465US465&oq=women+rape+fantasies&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8"]http://www.google.com/search?q=women+rape+fantasies&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS465US465&oq=women+rape+fantasies&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8[/ame]

    Nowhere did I say ALL women have rape fantasies...I said many women. And these multitude of articles references support my premise.
     
  6. devildog2067

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    You clearly do.
     
  7. devildog2067

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    Yeah, you kinda did
     
  8. Rabbi

    Rabbi The Bombdiggity Lifetime Member

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    No matter where you go with it, the point you have tried to make here, in this thread, that you are dancing with and doubling down on....is still stupid.
     
  9. Kurly

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    Oh....what a retort! LOL.

    Yeah, I own the mistake I made. I married a woman who I *thought* I knew, but didn't. I got out before it got even uglier. She wanted someone with means and who would cater to her wishes and her wishes only. It was an expensive lesson. But after doing a lot more research into the subject, I've discovered that I am by no means alone in the hypocrisy of feminism, marriage and the unhappiness that women have brought upon themselves due to the destruction of marriage.

    Would you say that the over 70% of women who initiate divorce proceedings are 'victims'? When men and women cheat at almost the same rate? Where DV is predominantly initiated by the woman? Where a simple allegation is enough to destroy the husband? Where 90% of the time, the woman gains custody of the children? All because she was "unhappy" or "unfulfilled" in the marriage?

    Listen to the Youtube video by the woman that I posted or any of her other postings. She references numerous studies that support her premise. Oh, and by the way, she's happily married and has a child too. She's just seen the ramifications of feminism and how it's destroyed marriage and why many men are opting out of the game.

    You just might learn something instead of perpetuating your own beliefs.
     
  10. Kurly

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    No dancing, but whatever. I take it you didn't even bother to click the link that I so easily provided you or listened or read any of the other links I've provided in my first post.

    Stay ignorant my friend...
     
  11. Kurly

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    Did you bother to read through the articles I google searched?
     
  12. Kurly

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    Um, that was talking about being taken in the bedroom. Are you saying your wife doesn't like for you to be the dominant one in the bedroom?

    You're taking two things that were stated in two premises. One was a women desiring to be "taken" and the other women having rape fantasies.

    The first link that comes up says that rape fantasies are not uncommon and or unsuual. The third link down when I google searched, showed that rape fantasies were the third most common fantasy women have.

    But then you'd have to actually look at what I posted, wouldn't ya.
     
  13. Rabbi

    Rabbi The Bombdiggity Lifetime Member

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    Lets try this one more time.

    Do you think that, in general, women want to be raped? No matter how that happens, to actually be raped?

    It is a yes or no answer. I am pretty sure you will say no.

    Real rape, be it in the form of hyperbole, was put on the table in this thread. You, trying to prove whatever point you are trying to make about womens fantasies....is stupid, even if your information is reasonably true.

    You seem to have a disconect between the core issues of what is going on here.

    Had you started a thread about "Women who fantasies about it rought..." or whatever, (of allowed, and it wouldnt be here), given your information so far probably would have been somewhat able to garner a consenus. Plowing that point into this thread, after Devildogs statement, is random, non sequitur and flat out stupid.

    You can keep on doubling down or you can realize just what the hell you did.

    Good luck.
     
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  14. Kurly

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    Riddle me this Joker -- why is it that "50 Shades of Grey" is not only one of the most popular books for women nowadays, but the most successful current soft-porn book for women if there's no context to what I said?
     
  15. Kurly

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    OMG, I never said they wanted to be raped you dolt! Look, if you can't even bother to read something and analyze it before responding with what you THINK someone said, then there's no point in continuing discussing this with you.

    You're so far off from what I SAID, versus what you THINK I said, that it's pathetic. Someone else made the comment about rape. I said all women like to be taken in the bedroom (the links I provided show that women prefer a man to be dominant in the bedroom) and that many have rape fantasies with a partner they trust.

    Is that clear enough? If not, go back and read through these posts instead of continuing a failed position that your original premise of what you THINK I said is correct. Because clearly, you're wrong. And the facts (the previous posts) outline that clearly.
     
  16. Rabbi

    Rabbi The Bombdiggity Lifetime Member

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    Are you serious? Is it that hard for you?

    Let me try this one more time.

    Real rape was put on the table (by Devildog, in response to slavery)

    You used that to prove some point about womens fantisies.

    Your point is stupid here, even if your information rings true.
     
  17. OGW

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    Kurly boy, you're arguing with the sharpest knives in the drawer and getting cut up badly.
     
  18. Kurly

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    Devildog reponded to my post that rape is wrong, regardless.
    As if somehow implying that what I posted constituted an agreement that women want to be raped.

    *I* responded stating the difference between what I wrote and what he interpreted (gee, are you and him the same person?). I did not say ANYTHING about rape, but did comment that women have rape fantasies and they prefer to have a dominant man in the bedroom (i.e. rape fantasies).

    Your bridge between the two is something that you made, not me. You own that bridge buddy but are now trying to sell it off on someone else.

    Nice try at backtracking.
     
  19. Rabbi

    Rabbi The Bombdiggity Lifetime Member

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    Here we see Devildog talking about actual, real rape.


    Here is your response. It is a stupid response, even if true.


    You are simply disconected.

    You cant follow along.

    You keep asserting we dont know what we are talking about because we refuse to believe your points. (nope, what you say rings true in some ways)

    To be blunt, we were all talking about shoes and you barge in with points about pants. We can talk about pants, but your point here, is stupid.

    Real Rape....and you used it to go on a crusade=stupid.


    I am just pointing out the context issues. I have not even begun to point out the content issues (see what I bolded in your post, there is no "but...." when it comes to real rape)


    I have posted my words, I will stand on them. If you need the last word, go for it. They tend to indict you more than I can.
     
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  20. mad220860

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    Still screwed on the child support if it ever comes to that! :popcorn: