Been on GT for over 10 years. Have made, kept and lost an assortment of friends here. I moved from Santa Cruz to the South in pursuit of re-starting my marriage and raising a family under better cost of living conditions. Family didn't get started. My fault for biting that hook, I should have known better. I'm not squallin' about it, but I am disappointed that I have to be the bad guy when my desires were made clear from the start and I even offered a "second chance". Ah well, here's my mantra now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKSeq_5ZyXI It'll be interesting reviewing this thread in 20 years. I look forward to showing it to my kids.