I was wondering if anyone here has experience with both the XDm 3.8 9mm and the XDm 3.8 .45acp. Which do you like better? how is the recoil with this pistol when chambered in .45acp? I have decided I want this pistol for CC, I just don't know which caliber I want. I wanted to say that I am also eventually getting a full size 9mm combat handgun for the house/range and any tactical courses. Thought being that I will have a handgun in each caliber if I go with the .45acp. Thoughts on this gun in either caliber? Opinions welcome! Thanks!