i read through pretty much most of the threads. and cant seem to find out what is better for personal defense. i carry right now magtech .45 acp +P 185gr hollowpoints. i also bought a new box of ammo for the extra mags i bought. it is speer gold dot .45 auto 230gr. so what is the difference between the weights.. is more weight better? and like stated ealier, better for personal defense. thx in advance. -thao Wanna kill these ads? We can help!