I'm getting ready to load some 165 Speer GD. I'd like a warm self defense load. My first hand gun was a .44mag so I'm not afraid of recoil. My issue is that I do t want to over run the bullet. I'm looking for some good expansion and hit and I'm ok with a little loss in Penetration. But I don't want over expand it and blow the pedals off causing over penetration. I'm thinking of around 1300fps. I've got some power pistol, auto comp, A#9 and long shot. I'll have to do some testing and see which powder gives the least flash and report. Any recommendations or advice on the load I would Appreciate.