First, I am NOT recoil sensitive...I am a retired LEO, and my carry piece is a G23. I have shot 180 gr. to 135 gr. and I can't tell a nickle's difference in them. My sister had picked the gun she wants for her CHL, a Ruger P94 in 40 S&W. She NEEDS a lighter recoiling load....Any recommendations??? Thanks for you opinions... Wanna kill these ads? We can help!