...we were told that we'll need to change our off-duty lifestyle quite dramatically. Make ourselves invisible on our days off, as some of the BGs (usually these are the gang members) are are very interested in all the details of our lives and especially our families. I'm living in different town - about 25 miles away from the city I'll be working in. For now I'm thinking about changing the car for more popular model in some grayish color, as the one I have currently is pretty unusual. I talked with my family already - and told them not to bring my Sheriff stuff to anyone's attention. I also told them to be prepared to see me disappearing immediately if I'll ever recognize any familiar face in the shopping mall, restaurant or cinema as I don't want my family to be recognized and connected with myself in any way. Any tips from the more experienced members here? How are You dealing with this stuff? Thanks in advance for any tips.