I've not been able to find a definitive answer to which is best in this situation and hope someone can help. When shopping with small children and in a parking lot loading groceries or packages into the rear of your vehicle, is it best to load the children first or last? Just thinking that if someone tries to carjack me and the kids are in the car, it becomes a very different situation than if they are not. Still, a lot of people say to load them first. Is there a best way? Thanks.