or so i was told. this has bothered me for several years now. i was told by a DDGM that i was because i came to the lodge from work instead of going home and getting cleaned up, but then i'd of been a hour or so late and an embarasment for another reason. the DDGM did have the deceancy to inform everyone present how he felt as well as confronting me privately. that and a few other things have sure made me think less of some of the people involved in it.