A couple of months I was off duty and met a lady and we hit it off pretty good. We saw each other a couple of times but she had never asked what I did and I had not told her I was a cop. Anyway, we we had just got back in my car and she asked if I had a pen. I told her yeah it is in my center console. She opened it and saw my spare set of handcuffs in the console. She did not say a word, and looked at me like I was Ted Bundy. I did not hear from her for about a week. I finally called and got a pretty cold response until I explained but now, she says she really is not that into cops....go figure.