Hope so. But these are life's facts. 1. Life is NOT a race that you keep on stepping onto heads of those beside you to get ahead. If you do...you have ISSUES bugging you from within-and pulling one down is your way of covering up said issue(s). Doing so you gain laughter. ONLY LAUGHTER, nothing more. And you pretentiously feel happy doing it. It is you medicine for the "one" within you is sick. 2. Life is a journey. Enjoy every phase. What you learn from each step-you can use intelligently towards next higher one. If you cannot or do not or will not learn from past phase, you therefor can't use any intelligence at all at the next step. And you go back to number 1. Or could be...intelligence is really foreign unto you. 3. Generate gratitude NOT anger. There is respect where there is gratitude. Hatred is twin to anger. Generating anger from others by pulling them down is the surest way to "satisfy" those "issues" within you. 4. Smile and be happy. If you cannot, why? The "issues" within you HOLD you back? You refrain from smiling. You resent accepting others. YOU DREAD THE THOUGHT OR SIGHT OF SEEING OTHERS SUCCEED. You have to live by your "standards"...THRIVING BY DISSENT! 5. Common, give it a try. SMILE! Love others. Accept DEFEAT graciously. Be HAPPY to see your fellowmen make it. If still, "issues" and "cover-ups" are raring to go...GO GET THE HELP OF A PSYCHIATRIST.