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Old 08-27-2013, 12:04   #201
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Whadaya know?!!! Lol. Someone who voted for Barry....TWICE is getting the wool pulled over his eys.... That could never happen. BAHAHAHAHAHA :THUD:
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:08   #202
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:09   #203
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Dude...if you can't trust her now. You won't be able to trust her later. Boot her ass to the curb. You won't regret it.
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:16   #204
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Whadaya know?!!! Lol. Someone who voted for Barry....TWICE is getting the wool pulled over his eys.... That could never happen. BAHAHAHAHAHA :THUD:
In that case you should try and work things out. Think of the sex!
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:32   #205
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Nothing says it better than that picture!

Truth - what is the lil man in your head saying. Be honest with yourself.

When it is over it is over. Be glad you found out now. If it is over, you will soon want to call her "just to see how she is doing." DON'T. In her mind she will see you as weak & needy and it will make you less attractive to her, plus it, in reality, is not what you will need for yourself.

The days will add up and you will probably come to realize that this was not what was best for you anyway. Odds are, if you don't call her, at some point she will call you and hopefully you will have found more happiness by then.

Give yourself time & thought to do what is really best for you.

EDIT: I deserve punishment for not reading the entire thread first. My gosh, young man!!!!

A promise ring. WTH?
She, I am sorry to say, may be very low on the list of things you need to focus on.
Man up. Obammunism has to go.
No more manipulating behavior.
No co-dependency.

Dude, change yourself now / get help / or drop into the abyss.

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Old 08-27-2013, 13:04   #206
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If a buddy of yours told you exactly what you're saying on GT just how much would you laugh in his face. The worst thing you could do is continue a relationship with this woman. She could have all the issues in the world that doesn't justify her doing half of the things you say. Do you really want to tie yourself financially to her, with marriage and have her be the mother of your children. Do you really want to commit this much of your life to someone who is blatantly cheating on you. EJECT bro.
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:10   #207
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G22 is right. I know from my own mistake. Yeah she was hot. Not worth the headaches, heartache and financial disaster. I sure miss the physical part but wouldn't do it again. Now freakin way.

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Old 08-27-2013, 13:15   #208
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I was in the same boat as the OP a few years ago. Well I finally saw the light and ended things with her. I had been single for 2 yrs and have since moved on and met a great woman 10000% better than her. It's hard at first, but it is something that had to be done. Better to do now than end up in divorce down the road with kids, child support, and half of everything gone.
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:18   #209
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See thats the thing. I may be relatively young, but I'm 25...I don't really WANT to go out and bang random chicks, not that I'm ready to get married, but I certainly wanted me and her to last a very long time.

I just dont know if I can trust her. A part of me thinks " If she's that unhappy, she would have left ME, and when she has shown some remorse for her actions.
TRUST is everything...without it, you have nothing.

Hope that helps...
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:18   #210
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At the very least this woman has to grow up and mature some. Its not your responsibility to solve her problems or make up for her crappy family life
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:20   #211
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Good Lord.....is ANYONE reading the entire thread before posting?

C'mon people, read and educate yourself. The OP's "girl" already dumped his door-mat butt, and returned his "promise ring".

Seriously, I kid you not.....a "promise ring".
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:35   #212
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Good Lord.....is ANYONE reading the entire thread before posting?

C'mon people, read and educate yourself. The OP's "girl" already dumped his door-mat butt, and returned his "promise ring".

Seriously, I kid you not.....a "promise ring".
That takes the fun out of it. Even after 200 replies, maybe no one has told him to dump her and move on. Lol

We were at Hollywood Studio this am. One line was for the pre-opening character Bfst. Well, lack of line. The rest had dozens of people in them. Care to wager how many people walked up to that line thinking hundreds of people were complete morons to not get in that line?
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:36   #213
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Good Lord.....is ANYONE reading the entire thread before posting?

C'mon people, read and educate yourself. The OP's "girl" already dumped his door-mat butt, and returned his "promise ring".

Seriously, I kid you not.....a "promise ring".
Well that's settled then
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:37   #214
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Old 08-27-2013, 13:46   #215
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Advice from one who has been in the game a long time - and loved many a woman...Unless you are that desperate for company or misery - cut this one loose, buddy. Good Luck!
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Old 08-27-2013, 14:09   #216
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Yeah....no. I wouldn't have any of it.
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Old 08-27-2013, 15:55   #217
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Get used to it,you can never completely trust a woman, once you do, you're done.

You have to remain in the lead, keep your finances private and separate.

As a feminist would tell you, this aint the 1950's anymore. The games changed.
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Old 08-27-2013, 15:58   #218
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From my experience, if you are at the point that you ask yourself some question regarding your relationship, it's because you already know the answer.

When trust is lost, there is nothing left. Better a clean cut that hurts a lot but will heal, than a wound that you let get infected because it doesn't hurt that bad now, but will eventually need to get amputated.
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Old 08-27-2013, 16:33   #219
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Get out of it. You will be extremely grateful that you did. Talking from experience
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Old 08-27-2013, 16:46   #220
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she thinks you have a small dick, are ugly, and have no money, or a combo of those.... she is looking to trade you in. if she aint already got somebody at the plate swinging his bat, shes got him on deck.

you my brother are a chump. plain and simple you are a chump. it might hurt you or make you mad right now but you don't need bull **** coddling, you need the truth. how does the other guys dick taste? stay with her and you wont have to wonder, youll be able to tell us.

oops, just saw that she dumped you, like you didn't see it coming.

remember this conversation and what youre feeling right now. it will help you make better choices later.
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Old 08-27-2013, 16:48   #221
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Are you into getting mind farked. Say gabye to this one.She's into mind games
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Old 08-27-2013, 16:51   #222
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**** her sister. If she does not have a sister, do her mom.
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Old 08-27-2013, 16:58   #223
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You'll be glad you did bro, you'll find a better one... get the **ck out
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Old 08-27-2013, 17:15   #224
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Over 200 replies to your post and they all say the same thing. Did you learn anything? Will you listen?
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Old 08-27-2013, 18:04   #225
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Respectfully, she hasn't "gotten it out of her system yet," if you know what I mean. "High maintenance" may be an understatement. If she hasn't broken your heart yet, she will when she's 38 and has a mid-life crisis. Of course, by then, you'll have 2 kids, which she'll get full custody of, and you'll be stuck paying all the bills and with supervised visitation after she accuses you of some misconduct with your kids. Ask me how I know that...

Please, for goodness' sake, go enjoy being 25 and date some other women. Despite how you feel right now, THERE ARE BETTER WOMEN OUT THERE who are looking for decent men like you. Enjoy your youth. It only comes around once.

If it is this easy for her to lie now, it will only get easier for her in the future. Fact is, bro, she's probably already involved with someone else. She wants her cake and to eat it, too. This is not a woman you can marry.

Another bit of advice. Go listen to the Offspring's song, "Self Esteem." Pay attention to the lyrics. Don't be that guy. You can do better.
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