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Old 08-24-2013, 16:11   #51
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Get one of the good pics off her phone. The ones she send the other guys.
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:15   #52
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It sounds like she isn't ready for a serious, long term relationship. If you are, then you need to let her know and leave. I've been in this situation before and had to let the person go. They'll eventually grow up, but I wasn't waiting around for that day.
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:21   #53
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At this point I think it is fairly clear as to what the majority opinion is as to the better course of action. But I think what has been missing from that opinion is trying to get you to promise that if you continue with the relationship, that you will continue to give us regular updates here.
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:22   #54
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If it matters, she's had a rough past-family issues-personal issues-abandonment issues. I truly believe she loves me, but I don't think she understand what acceptable boundaries are in a healthy relationship. I hope I can help her realize, you simply can NOT do these things, and not eventually expect everything to fall apart. Which unfortunately it has, ALL we do is argue lately...It's sad.
Even factoring all of her baggage, the end result for you will be pain.

Another vote for punching out (metaphorically speaking, of course :D )

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Old 08-24-2013, 16:25   #55
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Get out before she gets pregnant.
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:33   #56
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The moment I know I'm being lied to or deceived is the moment I know there's no future for the relationship!

However,... I might play along for awhile if she's good enough
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:34   #57
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At this point you would be best served to simply ask her to have a 3-some with you, her, and her best friend. Then, during the act, pay no attention to your girlfriend at all. When it's over, hand your phone number to the friend and tell her "give my number out to any cute girls you know, or you can call me yourself if you would like".

Turn to the girlfriend and say, your ride is here (point at her friend) and say "best you get your stuff together so you can head out with her".

That's the only advise I have.

Your relationship is already over you are just too dense to realize it. She does not want to feel guilty for breaking up with you, but she is already living her life like you are already broken up.. Did you miss that part?
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:37   #58
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Yeah....no. I wouldn't have any of it.
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if she isnt cheating on you now she is planning to
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Pics of said GF... we cannot process a legitimate response for your PU*** whipped A** without them...


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Old 08-24-2013, 16:44   #59
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The moment I know I'm being lied to or deceived is the moment I know there's no future for the relationship!

However,... I might play along for awhile if she's good enough
Forgot to add...

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Old 08-24-2013, 16:46   #60
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She loves you?

She loves you NOT.

Move along.. nothing to see here.
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Old 08-24-2013, 16:57   #61
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if she isnt cheating on you now she is planning to
This. Guaranteed.
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Old 08-24-2013, 17:02   #62
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This girl does not love you. She is riding your wave until the next best thing comes along and you are allowing her to actively looking for it. Quite making excuses for her and get on with your life.
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Old 08-24-2013, 17:09   #63
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This girl does not love you. She is riding your wave until the next best thing comes along and you are allowing her to actively looking for it. Quite making excuses for her and get on with your life.
Thank you for the Ladies' view on this subject. tom.
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Old 08-24-2013, 17:20   #64
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You are a clinger and are hangin on because you are in love. SHE ISN'T AND IT'S OBVIOUS TO EVERYONE BY YOU!!!!

STOPPIT!!!!! GROW UP! YOU ARE TOAST AND HAVE BEEN FOR A WHILE!!!

You have been told time and time again and still don't seem to want to get it.

Sorry for pal for we've all been there. Now it's your turn to move on.
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Old 08-24-2013, 23:18   #65
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Are you thinking you can eventually change her behavior? You cannot!

Go now!
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Old 08-24-2013, 23:20   #66
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if she isn't cheating on you now she is planning to
She's a serial cheater in training.
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Old 08-25-2013, 00:34   #67
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Dump her don't look back

She's an immature s--t.


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Old 08-25-2013, 00:56   #68
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Dude, you are done. You're past the thought of 'is she cheating on me'. She IS already cheating on you. That's a given. From there on out the future is riding on rails. You can slow the train down or speed it up, but there's no turning. You can only end up one place and it's gonna hurt like a mother. You already said you're in love so you can't even jump off. You could have 100 replies to your post saying Bail or Eject. You know you're not going to do that. All you're gonna do is stick your head out the window and watch the wall get bigger and closer....



edited to add: Oh, and take Rabbis advice on this. It'll make the inevitable hurt hurt less. All pride aside you need to tell somebody. A guy somebody. If your father's still around tell him. Tell your guy friends. That'll help with the hurt some and the eventual recidivism.

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Old 08-25-2013, 01:07   #69
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The OP has shown shmucky tendencies in other posts over the years, of course you'll make excuses for staying in a bad relationship. How it works in our household is that if my wife was friends with a guy before we met I don't care if the still communicate now, there is no chance of any new guy being friends with her, the same applies with me and female friends.

To the op, whether she has cheated on you or will cheat on you is irrelevant, lieing is the bigger issue and 6 months into it and it's already rocky is a bad sign.
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Old 08-25-2013, 01:08   #70
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Go find your dude friends and tell them this story. If they dont ridicule you into dumping her, you also failed with your dude friends.

Good choices, go make them.
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She has a choice between a 25 year-old Obommunist, and men.

Guess which choice she already made.
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Old 08-25-2013, 01:13   #71
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...-hopefully a day or two of space will help. ....
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:20   #72
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date as many 40 to 69+ women as you can. then at 30 something marry a 18 year old middle eastern girl through a arranged marriage.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:30   #73
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Sigh. Advice is highly needed.
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Quit being a door-mat. Act like a man, nut up, and GTFO....kick her to the curb and move on. Like right-the-frick-now.

Good Lord, I've forgotten what it's like to be a 25 year old.

"Emotions"........they're screwing with you....ignore them.
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Old 08-25-2013, 06:18   #74
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Long story short, I'm 25 my girlfriend is 24. We've been together 6 months, and she is the love of my life-I thought I had found the " One "

As it turns out-she has continued to talk to several men she met from an online dating site-when I saw the names in her phone and casually asked who they were, she said they were high school friends.

Not only that, she gave her phone number to a female work friend, and said to her " Give my number to someone you think would want to hang out with me " and the next day some guy named Jordan started talking to her. She admitted he had asked her out to the park, and she said it was a " Possibility "


She also contacted her ex boyfriend last week, to see if he still had a computer for sale. When I finally confronted her, for these numberous indiscretions, she said she just wanted " More friends " and they were a " Distraction " because me and her had been arguing lately.


I'm deeply hurt by all of this, but she says she loves me, and she only wanted friendship from these other men.


Sigh. Advice is highly needed.
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Old 08-25-2013, 06:52   #75
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No break-up is easy, but some are necessary. This one is required. It is much better to be the one initiating the dumping than the one getting dumped. Do it on your terms, with haste.

Personally, the biggest problem I see is her giving her number to the friend for dispersion. I am in a relationship and am comfortable enough, in my level of badassery, to not care if my old lady talks to her old boyfriends. She's got kids with the ex-husband, so they talk, a lot. In fact, I let them go on family days without me, without fuss. That's time for me to get my stuff done.

She may be the bad one in this relationship, but you're an enabler. Your weakness has allowed her to think she can get away with what you find unacceptable. (This is not to say you run every aspect of her life. Fidelity issues aren't the place for gray lines and mixed signals) You have both failed. You can find someone who respects you and she can find someone that will keep her interest, but you two won't find that, in each other.
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