GlockTalk.com
Home Forums Classifieds Blogs Today's Posts Search Social Groups



  
SIGN-UP
Notices

Glock Talk
Welcome To The Glock Talk Forums.

 
  
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 04-29-2011, 23:02   #1
SCmasterblaster
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: Hartford, Vermont
Posts: 16,020
Chronic Lonliness

Deleted
__________________
Gun Ownership Offers Freedom in Many Dimensions

Last edited by SCmasterblaster; 05-03-2012 at 13:26..
SCmasterblaster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-29-2011, 23:47   #2
El_Ron1
AAAAAAAAGHHH!!!
 
El_Ron1's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Redneck Sparta
Posts: 88,923
Get a dog.
__________________
If you can play on the fiddle,
How's about a British jig and reel?"
El_Ron1 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-01-2011, 17:23   #3
medic2258
Senior Member
 
medic2258's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Ohio
Posts: 202
Sounds to me like you have life by the balls. I'd get a dog and maybe once a month hire an escort. You might have to pony up some cash for her but there will not be any drama and she can't take all you own.
medic2258 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-05-2011, 18:53   #4
Jason D
Silver Membership
INFRINGED!
 
Jason D's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 1999
Location: Mivonks, MI
Posts: 41,964
Crikey


Try hooking up with a church's singles group or something.
No one should have to go through life alone.

I am sorry your wife is a piece of fecal matter.
__________________
An enlightened zeal for the energy and efficiency of government will be stigmatized as the offspring of a temper fond of despotic power and hostile to the principles of liberty.

Alexander Hamilton, author of Federalist No. 1. 10/27/1787
Jason D is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-06-2011, 10:28   #5
SCmasterblaster
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: Hartford, Vermont
Posts: 16,020
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jason D View Post
Crikey


Try hooking up with a church's singles group or something.
No one should have to go through life alone.

I am sorry your wife is a piece of fecal matter.
My church doesn't have a singles group. Everyone is married and guys like me are SOL.
__________________
Gun Ownership Offers Freedom in Many Dimensions
SCmasterblaster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-06-2011, 12:51   #6
packinaglock
John 3:16 <><
 
packinaglock's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Loxahatchee Fl
Posts: 4,787
Quote:
Originally Posted by medic2258 View Post
Sounds to me like you have life by the balls. I'd get a dog and maybe once a month hire an escort. You might have to pony up some cash for her but there will not be any drama and she can't take all you own.
Excellent advice!
__________________
A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.
packinaglock is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-24-2011, 07:04   #7
RottnJP
Lifetime Membership
Senior Member
 
RottnJP's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: CT
Posts: 1,997
I'm sorry about your ex. I'd have a really hard time with that- My kids are the best thing in my life. If you haven't, you might consider talking with someone professionally, even though it's been a while. My trust would be shot, and it would take me some work to figure out how not to carry that into my next relationship.

Now, while there may be an element of "be careful what you wish for" from us married guys who aren't as foot-loose and fancy-free anymore, and need permission to spend our own money ;-) the fact is you're lonely and looking for some companionship. To me, you don't get that from an escort- That would just make me *more* depressed to have to pay for it! lol

For whatever its worth (free relationship advice on a gun board... You get what you pay for! ;-)

Step one is just meeting people. Get out, do things you like doing. If all you like doing is sitting at home, it'll be more challenging. But even quieter, "introverted" activities have clubs- Gardening clubs, book clubs, reading clubs, church, etc. Look for ways you can meet people doing what you like to do. You like to shoot? Join a gun club- Don't just go to a public range by yourself. Hiking? Outdoor club. Whatever you like doing, there's a group of people who share your interests. Except moping at home. No club for that, because no one really *enjoys* doing that. So you have to find the "activation energy" to take the first steps.

Also, remember that networking can be your best route to a relationship. Friends set up single friends with each other, if they know they are potentially interested. So don't neglect making friends with a guy or gal just because they are married. (Note: It helps to make friends with the *couple* or the *guy.* Go around trying to make friends with married women when their hubbies aren't around, and that can lead to all sorts of other problems.)

Focus on the friendships and activities you enjoy, and the other things will follow. If you do ignore your married friends, now you have to do all the looking yourself- Think of married friends as all your wing-men, extra eyes and ears out there roaming the world on your behalf. One of your best assets in this can be a friend's wife who is a *teensy* bit busy-body-ish, but in a well-meaning way... If you score someone like that working for you, you're set! She'll find you leads in no time. ;-)

Worst case, you don't feel like you've been "wasting time" looking, because you haven't been "wasting" it, you've been having fun, right?

Good luck!!
__________________
Outpost Member #69.14159

Last edited by RottnJP; 05-24-2011 at 07:07..
RottnJP is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-30-2011, 07:12   #8
packinaglock
John 3:16 <><
 
packinaglock's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Loxahatchee Fl
Posts: 4,787
delete
__________________
A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

Last edited by packinaglock; 05-30-2011 at 07:14.. Reason: double post
packinaglock is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-30-2011, 07:17   #9
LASTRESORT20
LongTerm-Guy
 
LASTRESORT20's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: NC
Posts: 8,041
Good Luck ...everyone has their stories....good advice has been posted above..hang in there.
LASTRESORT20 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-30-2011, 07:22   #10
SCmasterblaster
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: Hartford, Vermont
Posts: 16,020
Thanks for the good advice.

Quote:
Originally Posted by RottnJP View Post
I'm sorry about your ex. I'd have a really hard time with that- My kids are the best thing in my life. If you haven't, you might consider talking with someone professionally, even though it's been a while. My trust would be shot, and it would take me some work to figure out how not to carry that into my next relationship.

Now, while there may be an element of "be careful what you wish for" from us married guys who aren't as foot-loose and fancy-free anymore, and need permission to spend our own money ;-) the fact is you're lonely and looking for some companionship. To me, you don't get that from an escort- That would just make me *more* depressed to have to pay for it! lol

For whatever its worth (free relationship advice on a gun board... You get what you pay for! ;-)

Step one is just meeting people. Get out, do things you like doing. If all you like doing is sitting at home, it'll be more challenging. But even quieter, "introverted" activities have clubs- Gardening clubs, book clubs, reading clubs, church, etc. Look for ways you can meet people doing what you like to do. You like to shoot? Join a gun club- Don't just go to a public range by yourself. Hiking? Outdoor club. Whatever you like doing, there's a group of people who share your interests. Except moping at home. No club for that, because no one really *enjoys* doing that. So you have to find the "activation energy" to take the first steps.

Also, remember that networking can be your best route to a relationship. Friends set up single friends with each other, if they know they are potentially interested. So don't neglect making friends with a guy or gal just because they are married. (Note: It helps to make friends with the *couple* or the *guy.* Go around trying to make friends with married women when their hubbies aren't around, and that can lead to all sorts of other problems.)

Focus on the friendships and activities you enjoy, and the other things will follow. If you do ignore your married friends, now you have to do all the looking yourself- Think of married friends as all your wing-men, extra eyes and ears out there roaming the world on your behalf. One of your best assets in this can be a friend's wife who is a *teensy* bit busy-body-ish, but in a well-meaning way... If you score someone like that working for you, you're set! She'll find you leads in no time. ;-)

Worst case, you don't feel like you've been "wasting time" looking, because you haven't been "wasting" it, you've been having fun, right?

Good luck!!
__________________
Gun Ownership Offers Freedom in Many Dimensions
SCmasterblaster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-30-2011, 08:19   #11
Winds-of-change
Senior Member
 
Winds-of-change's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Posts: 248
I feel your pain, Bro. I've been single since 1993. It seems like all the good ones are married and the ones that aren't married........well........it usually doesn't take long to see why they aren't married.
Winds-of-change is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-03-2011, 16:38   #12
JBnTX
God Bless Texas
 
JBnTX's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Between The Red And Rio Grande
Posts: 14,837
deleted

Last edited by JBnTX; 04-12-2012 at 13:31..
JBnTX is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-03-2011, 16:47   #13
HexHead
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 4,818
Okay, I can kinda see how at 55, you're "out of practice" and there's slim pickins. But good God man, since 1984? You were in your 30s, how did you waste all those years?
HexHead is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-04-2011, 15:36   #14
JBnTX
God Bless Texas
 
JBnTX's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Between The Red And Rio Grande
Posts: 14,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by HexHead View Post
Okay, I can kinda see how at 55, you're "out of practice" and there's slim pickins. But good God man, since 1984? You were in your 30s, how did you waste all those years?

He said he hasn't been in the company of a "woman" since 1984.
Maybe?
JBnTX is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-04-2011, 15:48   #15
SCmasterblaster
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: Hartford, Vermont
Posts: 16,020
Quote:
Originally Posted by JBnTX View Post
He said he hasn't been in the company of a "woman" since 1984.
Maybe?
No I am not a homosexual. I cannot remember being in the company of a woman due to my traumatic brain injury on 18Jun08. My memory loss is from April 75 to July 08. It is coming back slowly, and seeing familiar sights brings back some memories. But God has wiped out all memories of my ex-wife (1977-1984) and my golddigging ex-girlfriend (Dec 05-Apr 06) and all other meetings with women. He did it for a good reason, I'm sure.
__________________
Gun Ownership Offers Freedom in Many Dimensions
SCmasterblaster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-04-2011, 17:47   #16
RottnJP
Lifetime Membership
Senior Member
 
RottnJP's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: CT
Posts: 1,997
Quote:
Originally Posted by SCmasterblaster View Post
No I am not a homosexual. I cannot remember being in the company of a woman due to my traumatic brain injury on 18Jun08. My memory loss is from April 75 to July 08. It is coming back slowly, and seeing familiar sights brings back some memories. But God has wiped out all memories of my ex-wife (1977-1984) and my golddigging ex-girlfriend (Dec 05-Apr 06) and all other meetings with women. He did it for a good reason, I'm sure.
Wow- That's...

33 *years* you can't remember? My God...

Which raises the next question- What in the heck do you write about?
__________________
Outpost Member #69.14159
RottnJP is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-04-2011, 18:01   #17
SCmasterblaster
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: Hartford, Vermont
Posts: 16,020
Quote:
Originally Posted by RottnJP View Post
Wow- That's...

33 *years* you can't remember? My God...

Which raises the next question- What in the heck do you write about?
I consider the 33 years on hold until some future date. What will help will be to go to all of the same shooting matches around New England that I used to go to. Like at Nenamasake, MA tomorrow morning. BTW, I am writing about what has happened to me since getting out of the hospital in Aug08.
__________________
Gun Ownership Offers Freedom in Many Dimensions

Last edited by SCmasterblaster; 06-04-2011 at 18:09..
SCmasterblaster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-10-2011, 16:57   #18
Spike 7.62
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 138
God did that to you did he? I would consider conversion after that.. But to answer your question, try the internet. Plenty of fish, match, etc, lots of people meet online. Get into some social groups and mention you're single and looking. Maybe a friend can hook you up on a date. I'm serious about the internet, lots of people who don't "get out" much turn to it to mingle. Good luck.
__________________
"When yer wounded an' left on Afghanistan's plains,
An' the women come out to cut up yer remains,
Just roll to yer rifle, an' blow out yer brains,
An' go to yer Gawd like a soldier."
- Rudyard Kipling, in the Korengal Valley
Spike 7.62 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-16-2012, 18:39   #19
S&WGlocker
Member
 
S&WGlocker's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Central US
Posts: 60
Quote:
Originally Posted by SCmasterblaster View Post
No I am not a homosexual. I cannot remember being in the company of a woman due to my traumatic brain injury on 18Jun08. My memory loss is from April 75 to July 08. It is coming back slowly, and seeing familiar sights brings back some memories. But God has wiped out all memories of my ex-wife (1977-1984) and my golddigging ex-girlfriend (Dec 05-Apr 06) and all other meetings with women. He did it for a good reason, I'm sure.
Not to sound harsh to your situation, but GAWD I wish I could forget some of the women from my past.
I am 48, divorced twice, and now, having the best years of my life. Lonliness is purely a state of mind, not a state of being. I speak from experience. Hang in there, some one will come along, they always do, usually when you least expect it, so stay open minded and open hearted to the possibilities.
__________________
ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ
18 Yr
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 signatures.
Shooter....All 18 shot with a Glock!

As long as I am, I will be, when Im not, I wont care!
S&WGlocker is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2012, 13:21   #20
Silent_Runner
Can you hear me
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Off the Deep End!
Posts: 3,310
Quote:
Originally Posted by SCmasterblaster View Post
I was married from 1977-84, and my ex-wife took our two kids and ran away. I haven't been in the company of a woman since 1984. Here I am in rural VT wondering if I am to be alone forever. I am 6'0" and 230 pounds at age 55. I am a published author.
I seem to remember several posts about a woman you referred to as a gold digger and pasted her name and city all over the internet.

Perhaps that is why women avoid you.
__________________
Quote:
On here I'm an *** hole.
In real life I'm an *** hole with a gun. :supergrin:
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lone_Wolfe
I mean, Im mentally ill, not mentally deficient! There's a difference between psycho and stupid.
Rest in Peace Jeff Abshire-1962-2012-aka 23Skidoo
Silent_Runner is offline   Reply With Quote

 
  
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 04:29.




Homepage
FAQ
Forums
Calendar
Advertise
Gallery
GT Wiki
GT Blogs
Social Groups
Classifieds


Users Currently Online: 534
140 Members
394 Guests

Most users ever online: 2,672
Aug 11, 2014 at 2:31