Can't speak for other people, bro. You'll want one of the open forums for that, such as Concealed Carry or Caliber Corner. Here at GATE, you only get the one opinion-giver at a time.
If you are talking about recoil control as the too much gun issue, only you can determine that. See if you can rent one, and do a timed course of fire with it compared to other guns you're interested in using.
If you are talking about over-penetration, a light, fast hollow point should reduce that worry.