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Old 08-24-2013, 15:18   #1
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How much dishonesty can you take?

Long story short, I'm 25 my girlfriend is 24. We've been together 6 months, and she is the love of my life-I thought I had found the " One "

As it turns out-she has continued to talk to several men she met from an online dating site-when I saw the names in her phone and casually asked who they were, she said they were high school friends.

Not only that, she gave her phone number to a female work friend, and said to her " Give my number to someone you think would want to hang out with me " and the next day some guy named Jordan started talking to her. She admitted he had asked her out to the park, and she said it was a " Possibility "


She also contacted her ex boyfriend last week, to see if he still had a computer for sale. When I finally confronted her, for these numberous indiscretions, she said she just wanted " More friends " and they were a " Distraction " because me and her had been arguing lately.


I'm deeply hurt by all of this, but she says she loves me, and she only wanted friendship from these other men.


Sigh. Advice is highly needed.
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Old 08-24-2013, 15:21   #2
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Old 08-27-2013, 14:09   #3
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Old 08-27-2013, 15:58   #4
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From my experience, if you are at the point that you ask yourself some question regarding your relationship, it's because you already know the answer.

When trust is lost, there is nothing left. Better a clean cut that hurts a lot but will heal, than a wound that you let get infected because it doesn't hurt that bad now, but will eventually need to get amputated.
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Old 08-24-2013, 15:22   #5
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Sigh. Advice is highly needed.
I will give the best advice in this thread: dont ask for relationship advice on GT.
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Old 08-24-2013, 15:39   #6
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I will give the best advice in this thread: dont ask for relationship advice on GT.
This and I have no idea as to why people share their dirty laundry, personal life on the internet. As it is, most likely, dudes have already been balls deep dude...plenty of fish in the sea. Move on!!!
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Old 08-25-2013, 09:18   #7
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I will give the best advice in this thread: dont ask for relationship advice on GT.
But you also need to tell him to check her teeth and...something about a Sony Bravia.
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Old 08-24-2013, 15:25   #9
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See, if the girlfriend realized this, she wouldnt have been on an online dating site and this whole issue would be a non-issue.
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And you figured all this out how?

Seems to me you should move on and be thankful for the communication skills you learned in this one.

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Old 08-24-2013, 15:27   #11
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And you figured all this out how?

Seems to me you should move on and be thankful for the communication skills you learned in this one.

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All of these issues were found out via her cell phone. She let me go through one day, and I assume forgot about these contacts. So, it was always me finding out via having her phone.
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Old 08-24-2013, 15:33   #13
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I think that is a picture of someone "leaving" the Thunderbirds for what is about to happen to that very expensive jet.
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:08   #17
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:32   #18
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Nothing says it better than that picture!

Truth - what is the lil man in your head saying. Be honest with yourself.

When it is over it is over. Be glad you found out now. If it is over, you will soon want to call her "just to see how she is doing." DON'T. In her mind she will see you as weak & needy and it will make you less attractive to her, plus it, in reality, is not what you will need for yourself.

The days will add up and you will probably come to realize that this was not what was best for you anyway. Odds are, if you don't call her, at some point she will call you and hopefully you will have found more happiness by then.

Give yourself time & thought to do what is really best for you.

EDIT: I deserve punishment for not reading the entire thread first. My gosh, young man!!!!

A promise ring. WTH?
She, I am sorry to say, may be very low on the list of things you need to focus on.
Man up. Obammunism has to go.
No more manipulating behavior.
No co-dependency.

Dude, change yourself now / get help / or drop into the abyss.

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All of these issues were found out via her cell phone. She let me go through one day, and I assume forgot about these contacts. So, it was always me finding out via having her phone.
Two phones is the problem. Get rid of one of them and share the other.

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Old 08-24-2013, 15:26   #21
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I know there are some trolls out there, but thats ok, I accept that. I simply don't understand the need to lie to me, OVER AND OVER again regarding this. If all you wanted was friendship, she should have had no issue saying " I'm talking to a couple guys, but its strictly platonic "

One of the biggest red flags is, she willingly gave her phone number to a work friend, so the work friend could randomly pass her number to one of her friends? and...she's talked to this guy on the phone and texted him every other day.


For what it's worth, I don't do any of these things. I'm 100% faithful, and would never do anything to even be considered shady.
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if she isnt cheating on you now she is planning to
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if she isnt cheating on you now she is planning to
This. Guaranteed.
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if she isn't cheating on you now she is planning to
She's a serial cheater in training.
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