Sorry to hear your story Fireman1291 and I hope HK takes care of you.
I have read about a lot of great service from HK too. I just ordered my first HK from Buds a P30LS DA/SA and hope to have it soon.
My first HK being a huge SIG fan but I wanted a HK also. Wife wants to get into shooting too and I felt that P30L with its multiple backstraps and side inserts would be a great option to get it right for her gripping it along with DA/SA and safety.